It’s my birthday today, which is a big deal in my life. Today, though, feels different. Even though I was hoped for happy thoughts and celebrations, I’m by myself and feeling sad.
Birthdays are meant to be happy times spent with people you care about who make you feel loved and treasured. There are still no texts, calls, or acts of love coming my way as the day goes on. It’s a sharp reminder of how alone I am right now.
It can be sad to celebrate your birthday by yourself. People who read it are moved to think about the connections they value and how they affect their lives. It makes me think about how important connections are and how important human ties are in making us happy.
Even though I don’t have any traditional birthday celebrations, I tell myself that birthdays are also a chance to grow and think about myself. This year, I’m going to work on loving myself and being thankful for the things that have made me who I am now. Even though the day might not go as planned, the quiet times to think and the chance to enjoy the little things in life make me feel better.
As the day ends, I’m thankful for the lessons I’ve learned and the strength I’ve gained from being alone at times. Even though I may still feel lonely, I have hope for better days ahead that are full of warmth, laughter, and the hug of loved ones.
This is the start of a new year, a time to think about yourself and find your inner power. Another thing is that the universe might surprise us when we least expect it. For now, I’m going to enjoy my birthday my own way, because I know that birth days, like life itself, are full of surprises that shape our path.
